"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Broke up with x 6 months ago been fb since on Thursday she's started seeing someone else what to do?

danny0001uk

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Hi all,

I broke up with my x 6 months ago been fb ever since meeting upto twice a week on Thursday night she told be she's been seeing someone else to use as a fb too.

What to do now? I don't have any other plates and struggling meeting women havnt been on any dates since breakup 6 months ago
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What do you mean "what do you do"?

What did you do before you had a girlfriend? Did you have a life? Did you have hobbies? Did you have interests?

Does your entire world revolved around women and having a girlfriend? If not.. then this is a stupid question. Go live your life and start spinning plates.

The reason you are probably struggling to meet women is because you are making women a priority. Men who prioritize women are losers. Losers are not sexually attractive to women.

Hope that helps.
 

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What do you mean "what do you do"?

What did you do before you had a girlfriend? Did you have a life? Did you have hobbies? Did you have interests?

Does your entire world revolved around women and having a girlfriend? If not.. then this is a stupid question. Go live your life and start spinning plates.

The reason you are probably struggling to meet women is because you are making women a priority. Men who prioritize women are losers. Losers are not sexually attractive to women.

Hope that helps.
It's hard to believe that some men live like that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What do you mean "what do you do"?

What did you do before you had a girlfriend? Did you have a life? Did you have hobbies? Did you have interests?

Does your entire world revolved around women and having a girlfriend? If not.. then this is a stupid question. Go live your life and start spinning plates.

The reason you are probably struggling to meet women is because you are making women a priority. Men who prioritize women are losers. Losers are not sexually attractive to women.

Hope that helps.
He's right. I want to add one thing - men who prioritize women, when those same females are NOT prioritizing them.. well... I wont call you a looser because I get it, but you need to focus on you. Make YOU interesting by having hobbies and things that you can talk bout with females! WTF are you going to say to a chick if you strike up a convo at a party? "im sad b/c my ex has a new man"??!!!!

GO, DO, BE!!!! What are you interested in? Who are you? join some clubs, go to the gym, etc.

If you want to find someone who values who you are, you first need to develop interesting thing to chat about when you meet females.

Once you meet a female that prioritizes YOU, then reciprocate that.
 

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Hi All,

We broke up in August, of course I have a life outside of a relationship it was me that ended it back then, since then we have been FBs and now she saying she has found another FB she said she cant be FB with someone she loves. i dont have any other plates or anything, we lived together while we were together and now im back at my parents and cant bring women home
 
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