"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Broke up with x 6 months ago been fb since on Thursday she's started seeing someone else what to do?

danny0001uk

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Hi all,

I broke up with my x 6 months ago been fb ever since meeting upto twice a week on Thursday night she told be she's been seeing someone else to use as a fb too.

What to do now? I don't have any other plates and struggling meeting women havnt been on any dates since breakup 6 months ago
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What do you mean "what do you do"?

What did you do before you had a girlfriend? Did you have a life? Did you have hobbies? Did you have interests?

Does your entire world revolved around women and having a girlfriend? If not.. then this is a stupid question. Go live your life and start spinning plates.

The reason you are probably struggling to meet women is because you are making women a priority. Men who prioritize women are losers. Losers are not sexually attractive to women.

Hope that helps.
 

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What do you mean "what do you do"?

What did you do before you had a girlfriend? Did you have a life? Did you have hobbies? Did you have interests?

Does your entire world revolved around women and having a girlfriend? If not.. then this is a stupid question. Go live your life and start spinning plates.

The reason you are probably struggling to meet women is because you are making women a priority. Men who prioritize women are losers. Losers are not sexually attractive to women.

Hope that helps.
It's hard to believe that some men live like that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What do you mean "what do you do"?

What did you do before you had a girlfriend? Did you have a life? Did you have hobbies? Did you have interests?

Does your entire world revolved around women and having a girlfriend? If not.. then this is a stupid question. Go live your life and start spinning plates.

The reason you are probably struggling to meet women is because you are making women a priority. Men who prioritize women are losers. Losers are not sexually attractive to women.

Hope that helps.
He's right. I want to add one thing - men who prioritize women, when those same females are NOT prioritizing them.. well... I wont call you a looser because I get it, but you need to focus on you. Make YOU interesting by having hobbies and things that you can talk bout with females! WTF are you going to say to a chick if you strike up a convo at a party? "im sad b/c my ex has a new man"??!!!!

GO, DO, BE!!!! What are you interested in? Who are you? join some clubs, go to the gym, etc.

If you want to find someone who values who you are, you first need to develop interesting thing to chat about when you meet females.

Once you meet a female that prioritizes YOU, then reciprocate that.
 

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Hi All,

We broke up in August, of course I have a life outside of a relationship it was me that ended it back then, since then we have been FBs and now she saying she has found another FB she said she cant be FB with someone she loves. i dont have any other plates or anything, we lived together while we were together and now im back at my parents and cant bring women home
 
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