"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Broke up with live in girlfriend. What now?

BeTheChange

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Broke up with my gf. We share a flat together. She's also on the lease. I don't live in an area that acknowledges common law marriage so from a legal standpoint I'm not exposed to anything. Logistically and emotionally what's the best way to deal with things going forward?

I want to press for her to move out ASAP.
 

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marmel75

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How long have you been living together? Common law marriage is typically only after 10+ years...

You can't force her to move, she is on the lease. If she isn't willing to move and you want to get out, you might have to move.
 

cola

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Your ****ed till the lease is up. Until that lease is up you are responsible for half of that rent.
And if you skip on it and get an eviction on your credit you wont qualify for another apartment, and if you do you will have to pay double security deposit.

Thats 4 months of rent.

Your only option is to stay, tough it out till lease is up or move with a friend or parent who wont charge you rent.
Unless you can afford to pay half the rent there and rent at a new place..

This is a lesson to don juans..
If you decide to get a place with your girl neeever put her name on lease.
Neeever
 
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