"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
broke up with cheating g/f
- Thread starter ronniel
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MikeOck
Don Juan
The average woman has a cleverly crafted online illusion of a glorious life that would make even the most successful of her girlfriends jealous. The key word is illusion, and anything that interferes with the false image she has created needs to be mitigated to the best of her ability as soon as possible.ronniel said:
What she is doing is all about her. Your best interest lies in ignoring her online activities completely. Hide her Fakebook page and ask any of your mutual friends to not discuss her with you in any capacity whatsoever. Focus on moving on with your life, luckily you discovered her true nature before you got too involved.
Aristippus
Master Don Juan
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Now she claims that SHE broke up with me.
*** So she cheated on you, then she badmouths you, and then she lies to everyone. Sounds to me like a real winner.
Many times in the past appeared to be sad through her posts
***Why should you care about her feelings? It's obvious that she doesn't care about yours. This is why you should completely erase her from your life, including deleting her and any traces of her from Facebook and any chat or instant messenger programs on your computer.
Quit using "experimenting" as a facade and as an excuse to keep tabs on a low-quality woman who cheated on you and doesn't really care about you or your feelings. Breaking contact is something you do because you don't need to waste your time on worthless women and also, it's a great way to allow you to move on and to protect yourself from the harmful effects of keeping in contact or knowing about someone you are no longer in a relationship with.
Ex's are ex's and in general, it is healthy to avoid contact or knowing about the life, doings, and whereabouts of an ex. Don't do it halfway. If you break up, go all-out and never look back.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Lord Hypnos
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somehow i get the feeling that blocking her fb might be the breaking point, where she really ends up going off the rails, resulting in more slanderous comments to your mutual friends. i hope i'm wrong. but these days, for fb validation hors, being blocked on fb is equivalent to being cast out to a leper colony as was custom 1000 years agoronniel said:
scrouds
Master Don Juan
w h o r e.
Saying anything else is playing the fool. Radio silence is a good second place.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I know that she will lie herself out of this. Women are even capable to convince themselves about the lies they say.
I begin to spin plates. I had sex yesterday with my date and in a week i will travel 60 miles to meet a hot thirtysomething divorced mother. She can use some company
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
CostaDeSol
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ronniel said:
What did she do with those male friends, did she drink, hang out with them alone?
sounds like my ex-gf but i never thought she was a slut.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.