broke up with cheating g/f

[ronniel]

@Μasauer97: She also tries to save face with our common friends. She needs to appear that it was HER decision.

 

[Alvafe]

lol ok since its her decision I think you better go out today with your friend and ahve fun, since you are "so sad and all", normally I would say to you try to bang one of her friends but in this case is not even worth for you to try

 

[MikeOck]

Now she calls me insecure via her facebook status. Lol.
She's doing damage control

The average woman has a cleverly crafted online illusion of a glorious life that would make even the most successful of her girlfriends jealous. The key word is illusion, and anything that interferes with the false image she has created needs to be mitigated to the best of her ability as soon as possible.

What she is doing is all about her. Your best interest lies in ignoring her online activities completely. Hide her Fakebook page and ask any of your mutual friends to not discuss her with you in any capacity whatsoever. Focus on moving on with your life, luckily you discovered her true nature before you got too involved.

 

[ronniel]

@MikeOck you're wrong about that. many times in the past appeared to be sad through her posts.

Yes, i agree that this is all about her though

 

[Aristippus]

Now she calls me insecure via her facebook status.

Now she claims that SHE broke up with me.

*** So she cheated on you, then she badmouths you, and then she lies to everyone. Sounds to me like a real winner.

Many times in the past appeared to be sad through her posts

***Why should you care about her feelings? It's obvious that she doesn't care about yours. This is why you should completely erase her from your life, including deleting her and any traces of her from Facebook and any chat or instant messenger programs on your computer.

Quit using "experimenting" as a facade and as an excuse to keep tabs on a low-quality woman who cheated on you and doesn't really care about you or your feelings. Breaking contact is something you do because you don't need to waste your time on worthless women and also, it's a great way to allow you to move on and to protect yourself from the harmful effects of keeping in contact or knowing about someone you are no longer in a relationship with.

Ex's are ex's and in general, it is healthy to avoid contact or knowing about the life, doings, and whereabouts of an ex. Don't do it halfway. If you break up, go all-out and never look back.

 

[ronniel]

what i really care about is the lies she is able to tell to our common friends

 

[ronniel]

ok, blocked her on facebook. you're right. i don't need this

 

[Lord Hypnos]

ok, blocked her on facebook. you're right. i don't need this

somehow i get the feeling that blocking her fb might be the breaking point, where she really ends up going off the rails, resulting in more slanderous comments to your mutual friends. i hope i'm wrong. but these days, for fb validation hors, being blocked on fb is equivalent to being cast out to a leper colony as was custom 1000 years ago

 

[scrouds]

"*****"

w h o r e.

Saying anything else is playing the fool. Radio silence is a good second place.

 

[ronniel]

Guys, the case is closed. No need to elaborate anymore.
I will never speak to her again.

 

[ronniel]

She called again. Ignored

 

[ronniel]

@Danger: Yes, she definitely seeks a reaction out of me. She will never get it.

I know that she will lie herself out of this. Women are even capable to convince themselves about the lies they say.

I begin to spin plates. I had sex yesterday with my date and in a week i will travel 60 miles to meet a hot thirtysomething divorced mother. She can use some company

 

[ronniel]

Man, let's be honest. I went in a relationship with a woman that cheated on me after 3+ months.

I'm not proud of it at all.
I made a very wrong choice...

 

[ronniel]

Man, i'm 35. I have plenty of sex experience

 

[ronniel]

There were slut-tell signs that i ignored.
Many male friends, sex without condom etc.

 

[CostaDeSol]

There were slut-tell signs that i ignored.
Many male friends, sex without condom etc.

What did she do with those male friends, did she drink, hang out with them alone?


sounds like my ex-gf but i never thought she was a slut.

 

[ronniel]

Having many male friends is enough, even if she didn't hang out with them during our relationship.

 

[ronniel]

thank you

 

[ronniel]

another call. ignored

 

[ronniel]

btw, two of our mutual "friends" unfriended me on facebook.
yeah, she is talking behind my back.
oh well, can't do anything about it.