"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Broke up on Saturday..messaged me this morning

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I broke up with her on Saturday. This morning she emailed me saying "Hey I was talking to my mom last night and she asked me if we would still be able to purchase the pictures we liked for Linda (her aunt). Please let me know either way" (side note - i am a photographer and recently sold some work at a craft show, they came by and saw some photos they liked) Is this her just trying to get my attention? What do you think? How does one respond?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ezduzit said:
I broke up with her on Saturday. This morning she emailed me saying "Hey I was talking to my mom last night and she asked me if we would still be able to purchase the pictures we liked for Linda (her aunt). Please let me know either way" (side note - i am a photographer and recently sold some work at a craft show, they came by and saw some photos they liked) Is this her just trying to get my attention? What do you think? How does one respond?

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Conduct this business in a very professional manner. Don't leet emotions get the best of you. Plus you are making money here, take it as payment for your hard work. That's it. Then don't interact with the girl unless you have to for business or if he comes back asking you to take her back. At that point you set the frame and play it your way.
 
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Yo so i kept it business like and she is now acting like she doesn't know what my website is ! Ha.
 
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What is funnier is that I know she already accessed the site going by the statistics option it gives you being a member!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What is funnier is that I know she already accessed the site going by the statistics option it gives you being a member!
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Just give her the number and remain civil.

She obviously has feelings for you, even if you no longer do for her, so just remain professional, take her business on board and earn yourself some money.
 
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