"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Broke up on Saturday..messaged me this morning

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I broke up with her on Saturday. This morning she emailed me saying "Hey I was talking to my mom last night and she asked me if we would still be able to purchase the pictures we liked for Linda (her aunt). Please let me know either way" (side note - i am a photographer and recently sold some work at a craft show, they came by and saw some photos they liked) Is this her just trying to get my attention? What do you think? How does one respond?

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ezduzit said:
I broke up with her on Saturday. This morning she emailed me saying "Hey I was talking to my mom last night and she asked me if we would still be able to purchase the pictures we liked for Linda (her aunt). Please let me know either way" (side note - i am a photographer and recently sold some work at a craft show, they came by and saw some photos they liked) Is this her just trying to get my attention? What do you think? How does one respond?

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Conduct this business in a very professional manner. Don't leet emotions get the best of you. Plus you are making money here, take it as payment for your hard work. That's it. Then don't interact with the girl unless you have to for business or if he comes back asking you to take her back. At that point you set the frame and play it your way.
 
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Yo so i kept it business like and she is now acting like she doesn't know what my website is ! Ha.
 
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What is funnier is that I know she already accessed the site going by the statistics option it gives you being a member!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What is funnier is that I know she already accessed the site going by the statistics option it gives you being a member!
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Just give her the number and remain civil.

She obviously has feelings for you, even if you no longer do for her, so just remain professional, take her business on board and earn yourself some money.
 
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