broke NC

[PeakIV]

Don't all shout at once....

NC for 8 months she rang twice , picked up second time. came up with a lame excuse to ring me, long and short of it is she is moving to a new place and said she was single . I was cool and said good luck with that and she asked about me.
I said I was seeing someone, could tell she was pissed.... kept asking me questions and then saying , " don't answer, I don't want to know"

said I had to go , result is I am now smiling and I know she is pissed.

so maybe NC is not always the answer all the time......

 

[SecondHalf]

Depends on how often you replay that conversation over in your head.

Eight months is a long time, I doubt you're agonizing over her anymore (if that's why you went NC).

No harm done.

SH

 

[PeakIV]

that's the point, thats why you go NC for you and you only...

once your through the cr*p and have moved on in your head it's ok.

Although a little part of me was happy she was pissed and I felt in control.

he who cares least and all that stuff.....

 

[The Gambler]

Consider this a small mental reward for sticking with the plan for eight months... Not that you wish misery upon her, but she volunteered to tell her situation willingly to you. And maybe she'll learn not to take the next guy for granted (hahaha, hold your breath on that one...)

Great report!

The Gambler

 

[mrRuckus]

I don't know what it is about all my exes but I swear every single one has gotten fat. They vanish for just a few years, then suddenly pop up out of no where again twice their former size.

I like to believe they turn to cakes and pies to fill the void I left.

I can't say I don't enjoy it.

 

[PeakIV]

like you guys said, keep that hamster wheel spinning......

 

[scrouds]

I don't know what it is about all my exes but I swear every single one has gotten fat. They vanish for just a few years, then suddenly pop up out of no where again twice their former size.

I like to believe they turn to cakes and pies to fill the void I left.

I can't say I don't enjoy it.

They probably got into a relationship, let themselves slide, and it ended. Then they dial up all their exes for a pick me up boost or a bang.

 

[PeakIV]

that's the point it's never about you,

you have to remember that, they have just been dumped or broken up with their boyfriends and want validation, they are feeling down and want a pick me up.

They want to know you still care or haven't moved on, are still pining for them and want them back, then they go away happy.

They didn't give a sh*t about you when you broke up 8 months ago, why would they give a sh*t about you now.....open your eyes, I did..

 

[Three]

that's the point it's never about you,

you have to remember that, they have just been dumped or broken up with their boyfriends and want validation, they are feeling down and want a pick me up.

They want to know you still care or haven't moved on, are still pining for them and want them back, then they go away happy.

They didn't give a sh*t about you when you broke up 8 months ago, why would they give a sh*t about you now.....open your eyes, I did..

AMEN, Brother!

 

[MatureDJ]

I don't know what it is about all my exes but I swear every single one has gotten fat. They vanish for just a few years, then suddenly pop up out of no where again twice their former size.

I like to believe they turn to cakes and pies to fill the void I left.

I can't say I don't enjoy it.

I hear you. Happened to me a little while back. I tell her that I now date women half my age, and she tried to shame me.

 

[AW1983]

I hear you. Happened to me a little while back. I tell her that I now date women half my age, and she tried to shame me.

Ha, what other option does she have???

For all their legal and SMP advantages, we ultimately hold the cards...as long as we remember it. Damn it's good to me (male).

 

[SoSuave666]

The point of no contact is to move on. No other purpose. If you use it otherwise, you teeter the thin line of alpha/beta. No contact is a means to forget, not regret. The more 'hope' you add to the equation, the more depression you will feel in the end.