"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Pdizzzzzzle

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Sorry, this is kinda my first post where im not giving the advice, and i fell weird about asking for help, but I'm in a tight jam.

Basically, I've had a good friend Rich since freshman year. We've always been pretty good, never really fought etc. Well, Rich just had quite a break up with his girlfriend. And unfortunately, the girl he was with started flirting with me right away. I made it clear I don't like her to her (I've got a great gf anyway and wouldn't betray Rich like that.) But she just won't stop, no matter how obvious I make it. Anyway Rich is peeeved at me, I mean I kinda get that because i think he feels that she started causing probs because she had feelings for me, I'm not sure. I talked to hime, told him I liked the little wh*re in no way, and he said he believed me, but hes still kinda cold to me.

Basically, any ideas on fixing this situation? Sorry for being kinda like an afc, but I need help on this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm in the Mood

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Man it sounds like you're friend is more afc than you if he's cold to you about something you had nothing to do with.
If he's a really good friend as you say, it'll definitely pass and he'll forget about it.

If she ever approaches u while ur with your friend, reject her completely right there infront of him, politely though of course. I think that'll more than prove your loyalty to your friend. Gl though, just try not to make this thing into a really big deal. It'll pass man.
 
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I'm in the Mood said:
Man it sounds like you're friend is more afc than you if he's cold to you about something you had nothing to do with.
If he's a really good friend as you say, it'll definitely pass and he'll forget about it.

If she ever approaches u while ur with your friend, reject her completely right there infront of him, politely though of course. I think that'll more than prove your loyalty to your friend. Gl though, just try not to make this thing into a really big deal. It'll pass man.
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thanks I was kinda hoping it would just pass; just was a little pissed cause I feel like none of it my fault.
 
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