"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pdizzzzzzle

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Sorry, this is kinda my first post where im not giving the advice, and i fell weird about asking for help, but I'm in a tight jam.

Basically, I've had a good friend Rich since freshman year. We've always been pretty good, never really fought etc. Well, Rich just had quite a break up with his girlfriend. And unfortunately, the girl he was with started flirting with me right away. I made it clear I don't like her to her (I've got a great gf anyway and wouldn't betray Rich like that.) But she just won't stop, no matter how obvious I make it. Anyway Rich is peeeved at me, I mean I kinda get that because i think he feels that she started causing probs because she had feelings for me, I'm not sure. I talked to hime, told him I liked the little wh*re in no way, and he said he believed me, but hes still kinda cold to me.

Basically, any ideas on fixing this situation? Sorry for being kinda like an afc, but I need help on this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Man it sounds like you're friend is more afc than you if he's cold to you about something you had nothing to do with.
If he's a really good friend as you say, it'll definitely pass and he'll forget about it.

If she ever approaches u while ur with your friend, reject her completely right there infront of him, politely though of course. I think that'll more than prove your loyalty to your friend. Gl though, just try not to make this thing into a really big deal. It'll pass man.
 

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I'm in the Mood said:
Man it sounds like you're friend is more afc than you if he's cold to you about something you had nothing to do with.
If he's a really good friend as you say, it'll definitely pass and he'll forget about it.

If she ever approaches u while ur with your friend, reject her completely right there infront of him, politely though of course. I think that'll more than prove your loyalty to your friend. Gl though, just try not to make this thing into a really big deal. It'll pass man.
thanks I was kinda hoping it would just pass; just was a little pissed cause I feel like none of it my fault.
 
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