"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Pdizzzzzzle

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Sorry, this is kinda my first post where im not giving the advice, and i fell weird about asking for help, but I'm in a tight jam.

Basically, I've had a good friend Rich since freshman year. We've always been pretty good, never really fought etc. Well, Rich just had quite a break up with his girlfriend. And unfortunately, the girl he was with started flirting with me right away. I made it clear I don't like her to her (I've got a great gf anyway and wouldn't betray Rich like that.) But she just won't stop, no matter how obvious I make it. Anyway Rich is peeeved at me, I mean I kinda get that because i think he feels that she started causing probs because she had feelings for me, I'm not sure. I talked to hime, told him I liked the little wh*re in no way, and he said he believed me, but hes still kinda cold to me.

Basically, any ideas on fixing this situation? Sorry for being kinda like an afc, but I need help on this.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Man it sounds like you're friend is more afc than you if he's cold to you about something you had nothing to do with.
If he's a really good friend as you say, it'll definitely pass and he'll forget about it.

If she ever approaches u while ur with your friend, reject her completely right there infront of him, politely though of course. I think that'll more than prove your loyalty to your friend. Gl though, just try not to make this thing into a really big deal. It'll pass man.
 
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I'm in the Mood said:
Man it sounds like you're friend is more afc than you if he's cold to you about something you had nothing to do with.
If he's a really good friend as you say, it'll definitely pass and he'll forget about it.

If she ever approaches u while ur with your friend, reject her completely right there infront of him, politely though of course. I think that'll more than prove your loyalty to your friend. Gl though, just try not to make this thing into a really big deal. It'll pass man.
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thanks I was kinda hoping it would just pass; just was a little pissed cause I feel like none of it my fault.
 
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