"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Pdizzzzzzle

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Sorry, this is kinda my first post where im not giving the advice, and i fell weird about asking for help, but I'm in a tight jam.

Basically, I've had a good friend Rich since freshman year. We've always been pretty good, never really fought etc. Well, Rich just had quite a break up with his girlfriend. And unfortunately, the girl he was with started flirting with me right away. I made it clear I don't like her to her (I've got a great gf anyway and wouldn't betray Rich like that.) But she just won't stop, no matter how obvious I make it. Anyway Rich is peeeved at me, I mean I kinda get that because i think he feels that she started causing probs because she had feelings for me, I'm not sure. I talked to hime, told him I liked the little wh*re in no way, and he said he believed me, but hes still kinda cold to me.

Basically, any ideas on fixing this situation? Sorry for being kinda like an afc, but I need help on this.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm in the Mood

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Man it sounds like you're friend is more afc than you if he's cold to you about something you had nothing to do with.
If he's a really good friend as you say, it'll definitely pass and he'll forget about it.

If she ever approaches u while ur with your friend, reject her completely right there infront of him, politely though of course. I think that'll more than prove your loyalty to your friend. Gl though, just try not to make this thing into a really big deal. It'll pass man.
 

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I'm in the Mood said:
Man it sounds like you're friend is more afc than you if he's cold to you about something you had nothing to do with.
If he's a really good friend as you say, it'll definitely pass and he'll forget about it.

If she ever approaches u while ur with your friend, reject her completely right there infront of him, politely though of course. I think that'll more than prove your loyalty to your friend. Gl though, just try not to make this thing into a really big deal. It'll pass man.
thanks I was kinda hoping it would just pass; just was a little pissed cause I feel like none of it my fault.
 
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