"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
CobaltBlue
Don Juan
Cloud-uk
Master Don Juan
Haha, I've only been out drinking in Walton once, it was so savage... hang on, we have a spoons?! Are you talking about the Slug & Lettuce?
Just want to gloat- I'm 18 on May 8th, so Weeeeeeeeeey! No more ID madness for me!
Ahem.
englishcrap
Senior Don Juan
I think we need to start a Don Juan Surrey Society or Don Juan Kingston society
CobaltBlue
Don Juan
Seriously guys...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Cloud-uk
Master Don Juan
CobaltBlue
Don Juan
Cloud-uk
Master Don Juan
Oh, and if anyone knows guildford I'm having a private party in the Three Tuns tonight, if you know it. I can't guarentee I can get you in (we've invited 150 people, and the bar can only hold about 100 before people start dieing) but I'll try my hardest- P.S. it's a private so underage drinking is actively encouraged.
CobaltBlue
Don Juan
Guildford is waaay cool. Went to the university open day thing with my college. Sneaked off into town. The place was packed that day with more pu$$y per square inch than most places.
A Leuisure centre with ice skating, a cinema, and a shopping centre - brilliant for a dj.
C'mon need some more peeps here, or do you think its worthy of a new thread???
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
englishcrap
Senior Don Juan
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P.S Maybe we can start a yahoo group discussion to cover DJ'ing in the South of England
Originally posted by CobaltBlue
Long live underage drinking!!!
Guildford is waaay cool. Went to the university open day thing with my college. Sneaked off into town. The place was packed that day with more pu$$y per square inch than most places.
A Leuisure centre with ice skating, a cinema, and a shopping centre - brilliant for a dj.
C'mon need some more peeps here, or do you think its worthy of a new thread???
englishcrap
Senior Don Juan
Well I'd like to report back and say..no success last night. We have our ups and downs..
Anyone fancy hitting Wimbeldon next saturday ? I am going to attempt to hit V Bar...didnt have much luck last night but I am making a comeback
Cloud-uk
Master Don Juan
My 18th.
Didn't pull.
Spent the night macking onto this very good looking, total babe I know from college. She goes at 11. Arghhhhhh.
Other than that great night! Still so damn dissapointed though...
Cloud-uk
Master Don Juan
My 18th.
Didn't pull.
Spent the night macking onto this very good looking, total babe I know from college. She goes at 11. Arghhhhhh.
Other than that great night! Still so damn dissapointed though...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
CobaltBlue
Don Juan
Cloud-uk
Master Don Juan
Yeah, I would be. Tell you what, I'm 18 in 2 weeks, so around then?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.