"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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brings her friend to dinner

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So I've dated this girl one time. She obviously likes me and says she needs to rebound to get over her ex. She till me she's lonely and stuff aim and calls me.

So she called yesterday and wanted to go out to diner. She calls me 2 hours before hand as was planed and mentions that her best friend is with her she wants to met me and it seems as though she going to eat with us.

So now I'm wondering what the hell is this? I'm just going to be causual and friendly and play it cool. Is there anything I should know before I take on 2 chicks at the same time?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Run for the hills, the chick is not into you... not even an iota. She is trying to get a free meal, but whats worse, she is trying to feed her friend too! Don't do it.

Next Her!
 
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If she's paying she probably wants to really take you out. A few scenarios may be possible.
1 - She wants to go out with you, but she's uncomfortable just asking you out, so she's bringing a friend as a safety blanket.
2- She wants to hook you up with her friend.
3- Just wants to hang out.

Anyway, just be calm and gauge their interest levels. If her friend is hot, casually get her number and see if you can make things work. If the friend fugly, use some routines on the first girl and see where it gets you. Just think on your feet and you'll do fine.

-Damian
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She could always end up ditching her friend later because you two are having much more fun.
 
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