Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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brings her friend to dinner

Naapimp

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So I've dated this girl one time. She obviously likes me and says she needs to rebound to get over her ex. She till me she's lonely and stuff aim and calls me.

So she called yesterday and wanted to go out to diner. She calls me 2 hours before hand as was planed and mentions that her best friend is with her she wants to met me and it seems as though she going to eat with us.

So now I'm wondering what the hell is this? I'm just going to be causual and friendly and play it cool. Is there anything I should know before I take on 2 chicks at the same time?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Silex

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Run for the hills, the chick is not into you... not even an iota. She is trying to get a free meal, but whats worse, she is trying to feed her friend too! Don't do it.

Next Her!
 

Damian

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If she's paying she probably wants to really take you out. A few scenarios may be possible.
1 - She wants to go out with you, but she's uncomfortable just asking you out, so she's bringing a friend as a safety blanket.
2- She wants to hook you up with her friend.
3- Just wants to hang out.

Anyway, just be calm and gauge their interest levels. If her friend is hot, casually get her number and see if you can make things work. If the friend fugly, use some routines on the first girl and see where it gets you. Just think on your feet and you'll do fine.

-Damian
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Create Reality

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She could always end up ditching her friend later because you two are having much more fun.
 
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