"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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brings her friend to dinner

Naapimp

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So I've dated this girl one time. She obviously likes me and says she needs to rebound to get over her ex. She till me she's lonely and stuff aim and calls me.

So she called yesterday and wanted to go out to diner. She calls me 2 hours before hand as was planed and mentions that her best friend is with her she wants to met me and it seems as though she going to eat with us.

So now I'm wondering what the hell is this? I'm just going to be causual and friendly and play it cool. Is there anything I should know before I take on 2 chicks at the same time?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Silex

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Run for the hills, the chick is not into you... not even an iota. She is trying to get a free meal, but whats worse, she is trying to feed her friend too! Don't do it.

Next Her!
 

Damian

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If she's paying she probably wants to really take you out. A few scenarios may be possible.
1 - She wants to go out with you, but she's uncomfortable just asking you out, so she's bringing a friend as a safety blanket.
2- She wants to hook you up with her friend.
3- Just wants to hang out.

Anyway, just be calm and gauge their interest levels. If her friend is hot, casually get her number and see if you can make things work. If the friend fugly, use some routines on the first girl and see where it gets you. Just think on your feet and you'll do fine.

-Damian
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Create Reality

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She could always end up ditching her friend later because you two are having much more fun.
 
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