"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bringing one plate to another plates live cafe performance

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Turns out that none of my male friends are really big fans of just going to a cafe on a saturday night, having some coffee, and listening to some live acoustic music.

So

One of my plates is playing at a local cafe and invited me to come watch. Of course, I asked some of my male comrades to go, none of them want to go.

So I am left with a decision.

1 - go by myself which is like major negative social proof

or

2 - take one of my other plates, which provides social proof, but maybe kind of rude?

what would you do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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None. Don't go. Waste of a saturday night. Instead go slmewhere else to sarge and tell the plate performing to hit you up after her gig so u can give her some loving.
 
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Ahhh... maybe its because I got some "Im sick today, how about come over and watch some movies" poontang today, thus depleting my libido for the night, but I am thinking about diversifying my life recently.

Sarging all the time is getting to be an obsession. Sometimes I yearn for the simple life every once in a while. Like I really do want to go see this girl play, relax, have some cafe food, talk with some buddies, enjoy some atmosphere, go home early, and read a book or something.

Any of you other guys feel like this after youve had too much sex lately? Its like Im depressed that the world is so easily manipulated.

That being said, I will probably have my libido back tomorrow and go for the tang.
 
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