"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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bringing one plate to another plates live cafe performance

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Turns out that none of my male friends are really big fans of just going to a cafe on a saturday night, having some coffee, and listening to some live acoustic music.

So

One of my plates is playing at a local cafe and invited me to come watch. Of course, I asked some of my male comrades to go, none of them want to go.

So I am left with a decision.

1 - go by myself which is like major negative social proof

or

2 - take one of my other plates, which provides social proof, but maybe kind of rude?

what would you do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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None. Don't go. Waste of a saturday night. Instead go slmewhere else to sarge and tell the plate performing to hit you up after her gig so u can give her some loving.
 

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Ahhh... maybe its because I got some "Im sick today, how about come over and watch some movies" poontang today, thus depleting my libido for the night, but I am thinking about diversifying my life recently.

Sarging all the time is getting to be an obsession. Sometimes I yearn for the simple life every once in a while. Like I really do want to go see this girl play, relax, have some cafe food, talk with some buddies, enjoy some atmosphere, go home early, and read a book or something.

Any of you other guys feel like this after youve had too much sex lately? Its like Im depressed that the world is so easily manipulated.

That being said, I will probably have my libido back tomorrow and go for the tang.
 
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