"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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bringing one plate to another plates live cafe performance

powpow

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Turns out that none of my male friends are really big fans of just going to a cafe on a saturday night, having some coffee, and listening to some live acoustic music.

So

One of my plates is playing at a local cafe and invited me to come watch. Of course, I asked some of my male comrades to go, none of them want to go.

So I am left with a decision.

1 - go by myself which is like major negative social proof

or

2 - take one of my other plates, which provides social proof, but maybe kind of rude?

what would you do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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None. Don't go. Waste of a saturday night. Instead go slmewhere else to sarge and tell the plate performing to hit you up after her gig so u can give her some loving.
 

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Ahhh... maybe its because I got some "Im sick today, how about come over and watch some movies" poontang today, thus depleting my libido for the night, but I am thinking about diversifying my life recently.

Sarging all the time is getting to be an obsession. Sometimes I yearn for the simple life every once in a while. Like I really do want to go see this girl play, relax, have some cafe food, talk with some buddies, enjoy some atmosphere, go home early, and read a book or something.

Any of you other guys feel like this after youve had too much sex lately? Its like Im depressed that the world is so easily manipulated.

That being said, I will probably have my libido back tomorrow and go for the tang.
 
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