"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bring multiple plates to same party?

Fumbduck

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Is it smart to invite multiple plates to the same party?

Girl 1: Vibing hardcore since we met through bodylanguage, kino and non-verbal flirting. Met a few days ago, have not hooked up with. (I don't hook up on a first meeting...its my style)

Girl 2: See her only in the summertime, isn't super flirty; but called and wants to "see me". Have not hooked up with her because a friend was into her. Recently my friend and i had a falling out so it's fair game now...

I know preselection is powerful, everyone wants what everyone else wants. I want them both lol

So...how would you handle this situation?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alex DeLarge

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I've brought one of my plates to a party once, where two of them were actually there. It was a nightmare of ****blocking lol. If you have awesome DJ skills maybe it'll work out for you?

One of the girls was actually pissed at me and just left because another one kissed me in front of her. So much for that :/
 

PDubb75

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Come on man... don't be a fumbduck. It's a bad idea. A really bad idea.

So much can happen that can ruin your chance with a specific girl, or both of them. Just as Alex just said...

A few weeks ago, 2 of my FBs met up with my friends and I at a bar. They didn't know about eachother. Both were trying to get my attention all night, and as soon as I gave one of them attention, I could feel the other girls' eyes glued to me. So I would try to act like "friends" and then the person who I was giving my attention to thought I was being "weird". Every time I would talk to one of them, the convo started with a "who is she?", "why is she touching you like that?", etc.

It was the most exhausting night of my life, which ended with both of them being pissed at me, and one of them going home crying. Brutal night... I've done everything in my power to make sure it doesn't happen again.
 

Fumbduck

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fair enough! lol

I won't voluntarily make that mistake. Girls are one thing but girls who you have a history with are another story.
 

thinkinblue613

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It's like shooting yourself in not one foot, but two.

Not a good idea.. I've done that before and I either lost one girl or both in the same night.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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