"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bring multiple plates to same party?

Fumbduck

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Is it smart to invite multiple plates to the same party?

Girl 1: Vibing hardcore since we met through bodylanguage, kino and non-verbal flirting. Met a few days ago, have not hooked up with. (I don't hook up on a first meeting...its my style)

Girl 2: See her only in the summertime, isn't super flirty; but called and wants to "see me". Have not hooked up with her because a friend was into her. Recently my friend and i had a falling out so it's fair game now...

I know preselection is powerful, everyone wants what everyone else wants. I want them both lol

So...how would you handle this situation?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Alex DeLarge

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I've brought one of my plates to a party once, where two of them were actually there. It was a nightmare of ****blocking lol. If you have awesome DJ skills maybe it'll work out for you?

One of the girls was actually pissed at me and just left because another one kissed me in front of her. So much for that :/
 

PDubb75

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Come on man... don't be a fumbduck. It's a bad idea. A really bad idea.

So much can happen that can ruin your chance with a specific girl, or both of them. Just as Alex just said...

A few weeks ago, 2 of my FBs met up with my friends and I at a bar. They didn't know about eachother. Both were trying to get my attention all night, and as soon as I gave one of them attention, I could feel the other girls' eyes glued to me. So I would try to act like "friends" and then the person who I was giving my attention to thought I was being "weird". Every time I would talk to one of them, the convo started with a "who is she?", "why is she touching you like that?", etc.

It was the most exhausting night of my life, which ended with both of them being pissed at me, and one of them going home crying. Brutal night... I've done everything in my power to make sure it doesn't happen again.
 

Fumbduck

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fair enough! lol

I won't voluntarily make that mistake. Girls are one thing but girls who you have a history with are another story.
 

thinkinblue613

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It's like shooting yourself in not one foot, but two.

Not a good idea.. I've done that before and I either lost one girl or both in the same night.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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