"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Bring her friends? IN PROGRESS

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I was asking this girl to the movies saturday night and the conversation went

Her: Alright I'll see you there, I'm gonna bring my friends so bring yours too
Me: Well I just wanted to chill with you
Her: Thats ok, but just asking why?
Me: I know you, not your friends. Most of the people I would normally bring already saw the movie anyways.
Her: Well you gotta have some friends that haven't seen it
Me: Alright, I'll bring <AFC that I always say she likes, which she doesn't>. Maybe when they turn the lights out you guys can get a little something going on
Her: He's out of town
Me: Stalker.

Convo is still in progress, any ideas?

EDIT: Now she's trying to talk about the AFC. I go "You seem awfully interested in <AFC>, want me to hook you up?" and she gives a pretttyyyy strong "noooo hes not my type at all im just trying to bring up conversation"

wtf.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You're bringing nothing to the table in this conversation except for talks of another guy. The point is to make conversations fast, fun, and funny. Anything else is just going to bore her and turn you into her emotional tampon.
 
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WC2 said:
You're bringing nothing to the table in this conversation except for talks of another guy. The point is to make conversations fast, fun, and funny. Anything else is just going to bore her and turn you into her emotional tampon.
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Well I ended up saying something along the lines of "I just found a girl that hasn't seen her yet, so I'll bring her." and she immediately got confused. I played with that for a little bit and we're now going alone.
 
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