"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bring her friends? IN PROGRESS

TheNewGuy

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I was asking this girl to the movies saturday night and the conversation went

Her: Alright I'll see you there, I'm gonna bring my friends so bring yours too
Me: Well I just wanted to chill with you
Her: Thats ok, but just asking why?
Me: I know you, not your friends. Most of the people I would normally bring already saw the movie anyways.
Her: Well you gotta have some friends that haven't seen it
Me: Alright, I'll bring <AFC that I always say she likes, which she doesn't>. Maybe when they turn the lights out you guys can get a little something going on
Her: He's out of town
Me: Stalker.

Convo is still in progress, any ideas?

EDIT: Now she's trying to talk about the AFC. I go "You seem awfully interested in <AFC>, want me to hook you up?" and she gives a pretttyyyy strong "noooo hes not my type at all im just trying to bring up conversation"

wtf.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You're bringing nothing to the table in this conversation except for talks of another guy. The point is to make conversations fast, fun, and funny. Anything else is just going to bore her and turn you into her emotional tampon.
 

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WC2 said:
You're bringing nothing to the table in this conversation except for talks of another guy. The point is to make conversations fast, fun, and funny. Anything else is just going to bore her and turn you into her emotional tampon.
Well I ended up saying something along the lines of "I just found a girl that hasn't seen her yet, so I'll bring her." and she immediately got confused. I played with that for a little bit and we're now going alone.
 
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