"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bring her friends? IN PROGRESS

TheNewGuy

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I was asking this girl to the movies saturday night and the conversation went

Her: Alright I'll see you there, I'm gonna bring my friends so bring yours too
Me: Well I just wanted to chill with you
Her: Thats ok, but just asking why?
Me: I know you, not your friends. Most of the people I would normally bring already saw the movie anyways.
Her: Well you gotta have some friends that haven't seen it
Me: Alright, I'll bring <AFC that I always say she likes, which she doesn't>. Maybe when they turn the lights out you guys can get a little something going on
Her: He's out of town
Me: Stalker.

Convo is still in progress, any ideas?

EDIT: Now she's trying to talk about the AFC. I go "You seem awfully interested in <AFC>, want me to hook you up?" and she gives a pretttyyyy strong "noooo hes not my type at all im just trying to bring up conversation"

wtf.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You're bringing nothing to the table in this conversation except for talks of another guy. The point is to make conversations fast, fun, and funny. Anything else is just going to bore her and turn you into her emotional tampon.
 

TheNewGuy

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WC2 said:
You're bringing nothing to the table in this conversation except for talks of another guy. The point is to make conversations fast, fun, and funny. Anything else is just going to bore her and turn you into her emotional tampon.
Well I ended up saying something along the lines of "I just found a girl that hasn't seen her yet, so I'll bring her." and she immediately got confused. I played with that for a little bit and we're now going alone.
 
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