Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
Can you bring one? Will they allow you to do this? or would it seem like a douchebag move? You tell me.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bring a Yoga Mat and doing Yoga before and after lifting weights at the Gym?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BackInTheGame78
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Why would you need to bring one? What type of gym do you go to that doesn't have plenty of these available? Almost every gym I have ever gone to has loads of these hanging around in various places or has floors that are essentially made from the same material so it makes them redundant and unnecessary.
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Tbh I just stretch at home, drive to the gym, do my lift, stretch after.
Stretching is mandatory for me now. I refuse to be a “locked up lifter,” it feels horrible lol.
Stretching is mandatory for me now. I refuse to be a “locked up lifter,” it feels horrible lol.
Bible_Belt
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Stretching prevents injury, which becomes more important the older you get.