"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Brent smith advocates no traditional dates

Thechamp

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Brent smith advocates no traditional dates , where do you guys set up your dates bars cafes mini golf. He's suggest if they message you just basically invite them over , drinks at mine etc?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheMonkeyKing

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I kinda like this guy. He advocates simplicity, which I like and think more guys should embrace.


You can invite them straight round, but you might face a lot of slut-shame resistance. I prefer a date or two in a bar though, then get them round for dates two or three; helps build the tension if you're doing it right. Do the Three Bar Bounce on dates one and two it's almost impossible not to get her round by date three. I usually suggest pizza and films; just my own brand of 'Netflix and Chill'. They get the idea.

For me, mini golf is something you do for a bit of fun once you start spending extended periods of time with a girl. Or maybe if you don't drink alcohol. It's not really a 'date' for me though.

As Brent says, guys always assume that something worth having is difficult to get. I would agree to an extend; if a man is worthy, things worth having are not difficult to get.

A guy with low value will not even attract low-value women in today's climate.

A guy with high value will find it easy to gain more things of worth, as a matter of self-fulfilling prophecy.
 

Konada

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Only applies for high value men, even then its a low percentage play. Not many men are able to have such a high value that you force women to abandon their own sexual strategy.

I'd reckom guru might be able to pull this off.
 
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