Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Brent smith advocates no traditional dates

Thechamp

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Brent smith advocates no traditional dates , where do you guys set up your dates bars cafes mini golf. He's suggest if they message you just basically invite them over , drinks at mine etc?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheMonkeyKing

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I kinda like this guy. He advocates simplicity, which I like and think more guys should embrace.


You can invite them straight round, but you might face a lot of slut-shame resistance. I prefer a date or two in a bar though, then get them round for dates two or three; helps build the tension if you're doing it right. Do the Three Bar Bounce on dates one and two it's almost impossible not to get her round by date three. I usually suggest pizza and films; just my own brand of 'Netflix and Chill'. They get the idea.

For me, mini golf is something you do for a bit of fun once you start spending extended periods of time with a girl. Or maybe if you don't drink alcohol. It's not really a 'date' for me though.

As Brent says, guys always assume that something worth having is difficult to get. I would agree to an extend; if a man is worthy, things worth having are not difficult to get.

A guy with low value will not even attract low-value women in today's climate.

A guy with high value will find it easy to gain more things of worth, as a matter of self-fulfilling prophecy.
 

Konada

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Only applies for high value men, even then its a low percentage play. Not many men are able to have such a high value that you force women to abandon their own sexual strategy.

I'd reckom guru might be able to pull this off.
 
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