"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Brent smith advocates no traditional dates

Thechamp

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Brent smith advocates no traditional dates , where do you guys set up your dates bars cafes mini golf. He's suggest if they message you just basically invite them over , drinks at mine etc?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheMonkeyKing

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I kinda like this guy. He advocates simplicity, which I like and think more guys should embrace.


You can invite them straight round, but you might face a lot of slut-shame resistance. I prefer a date or two in a bar though, then get them round for dates two or three; helps build the tension if you're doing it right. Do the Three Bar Bounce on dates one and two it's almost impossible not to get her round by date three. I usually suggest pizza and films; just my own brand of 'Netflix and Chill'. They get the idea.

For me, mini golf is something you do for a bit of fun once you start spending extended periods of time with a girl. Or maybe if you don't drink alcohol. It's not really a 'date' for me though.

As Brent says, guys always assume that something worth having is difficult to get. I would agree to an extend; if a man is worthy, things worth having are not difficult to get.

A guy with low value will not even attract low-value women in today's climate.

A guy with high value will find it easy to gain more things of worth, as a matter of self-fulfilling prophecy.
 

Konada

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Only applies for high value men, even then its a low percentage play. Not many men are able to have such a high value that you force women to abandon their own sexual strategy.

I'd reckom guru might be able to pull this off.
 
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