"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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breaking up with my girlfriend ...?

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El Payaso said:
Well, you better make up your mind soon on what you want and act because either way, your indifference towards her will push her away
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In my experience, JohnChops has the upper hand at the moment. He has the freedom to explore other options that could make for a better GF. Whether he does that or not is entirely up to him. JohnChops has realized his sexual market value (random chicks that want to fvck.) It's an empowering feeling and I hope he capitalizes on these adventures.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Been in same shoes before, my advice is breakup and do it now. I started feeling same way, but I was so worried abt her reaction that I prolonged it and eventually got deep into relationship grew further invested and SHE dumped me. Always bomb first man, ALWAYS! Stop worrying about her shell live. First it's bday, then Christmas, vday, anniversary. Stop worrying abt being an *******. It's called a breakup for a reason. No really nice way or timing to do it. Do what's best for you.
 
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JohnChops said:
so breaking up over a text... thats a no no right lol
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"Ay bby we donion rings"

If she responds,
"The AT&T Subscriber you are trying to reach is no longer in service"
 
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