"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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breaking up with my girlfriend ...?

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El Payaso said:
Well, you better make up your mind soon on what you want and act because either way, your indifference towards her will push her away
In my experience, JohnChops has the upper hand at the moment. He has the freedom to explore other options that could make for a better GF. Whether he does that or not is entirely up to him. JohnChops has realized his sexual market value (random chicks that want to fvck.) It's an empowering feeling and I hope he capitalizes on these adventures.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Been in same shoes before, my advice is breakup and do it now. I started feeling same way, but I was so worried abt her reaction that I prolonged it and eventually got deep into relationship grew further invested and SHE dumped me. Always bomb first man, ALWAYS! Stop worrying about her shell live. First it's bday, then Christmas, vday, anniversary. Stop worrying abt being an *******. It's called a breakup for a reason. No really nice way or timing to do it. Do what's best for you.
 
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JohnChops said:
so breaking up over a text... thats a no no right lol
"Ay bby we donion rings"

If she responds,
"The AT&T Subscriber you are trying to reach is no longer in service"
 
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