"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Breaking up with girlfriend to become a PUA/DJ
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
sexysuave
Senior Don Juan
Common, be smart man. Don't tell her ANYTHING about DJ stuff, PUA stuff or ANY of this!! You can't be giving away your power! Never tell people that you are learning this stuff cause most of them will use that against you and it may come back to bite you in the butt. Keep your styding and knowledge as your own personal tool, no need to tell people about it, it will be counter productive. If everyone knows, then every move you do or every thing you say they will start trying to figure out what you're really up to and if that's also part of your "routine". Trust me, you don't want all of that. Keep this site and anything else you learn to your self, and keep improving but do NOT talk about studying this stuff.
With the girl, you don't need to tell her the ENTIRE truth man. Just tell her "hey, I loved spending time with you and all, but this is not working out anymore, sorry"
Scars
Master Don Juan
Good luck.
-Scars
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.