"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Breaking up with girlfriend to become a PUA/DJ
- Thread starter Sofomore
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
sexysuave
Senior Don Juan
Common, be smart man. Don't tell her ANYTHING about DJ stuff, PUA stuff or ANY of this!! You can't be giving away your power! Never tell people that you are learning this stuff cause most of them will use that against you and it may come back to bite you in the butt. Keep your styding and knowledge as your own personal tool, no need to tell people about it, it will be counter productive. If everyone knows, then every move you do or every thing you say they will start trying to figure out what you're really up to and if that's also part of your "routine". Trust me, you don't want all of that. Keep this site and anything else you learn to your self, and keep improving but do NOT talk about studying this stuff.
With the girl, you don't need to tell her the ENTIRE truth man. Just tell her "hey, I loved spending time with you and all, but this is not working out anymore, sorry"
Scars
Master Don Juan
Good luck.
-Scars
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.