"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Breaking up with girlfriend to become a PUA/DJ
- Thread starter Sofomore
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
sexysuave
Senior Don Juan
Common, be smart man. Don't tell her ANYTHING about DJ stuff, PUA stuff or ANY of this!! You can't be giving away your power! Never tell people that you are learning this stuff cause most of them will use that against you and it may come back to bite you in the butt. Keep your styding and knowledge as your own personal tool, no need to tell people about it, it will be counter productive. If everyone knows, then every move you do or every thing you say they will start trying to figure out what you're really up to and if that's also part of your "routine". Trust me, you don't want all of that. Keep this site and anything else you learn to your self, and keep improving but do NOT talk about studying this stuff.
With the girl, you don't need to tell her the ENTIRE truth man. Just tell her "hey, I loved spending time with you and all, but this is not working out anymore, sorry"
Scars
Master Don Juan
Good luck.
-Scars
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.