"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Breaking into new social circles

TheLoner

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Has anyone ever broken into new social circles?

The social circles that I see currently existing are composed
solely from people who knew each other from high school. People do not have newer
social circles than that.

has anyone ever noticed this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mike32ct

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TheLoner said:
Has anyone ever broken into new social circles?

Generally, you can't except through dating, F-ing, or being best friends with an existing member of that circle.


The social circles that I see currently existing are composed
solely from people who knew each other from high school. People do not have newer
social circles than that.

has anyone ever noticed this?
Yes, absolutely.
 

plate's_empty

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TheLoner said:
Has anyone ever broken into new social circles?

The social circles that I see currently existing are composed
solely from people who knew each other from high school. People do not have newer
social circles than that.

has anyone ever noticed this?
The easiest way to break into a new social circle is to send them all a picture of your Dong.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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In general, social circles are cemented by high school. Some are cemented in college/university. But in my experience high school determines 90% of your social circle.
 

TheLoner

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
In general, social circles are cemented by high school. Some are cemented in college/university. But in my experience high school determines 90% of your social circle.
I hate how high school determines 90% of your social circle. What if you moved around alot during high school, what happens to those people?
 

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TheLoner said:
I hate how high school determines 90% of your social circle. What if you moved around alot during high school, what happens to those people?
Not for me, aside from a few guys I play poker with I can hardly even remember the names of the people I went to high school with.

As for breaking in, it's mostly about becoming friends with someone in that circle who thinks you should be brought in. If they're someone that the others respect then if you're cool with them you're in like Flint. Sometimes it's as simple as getting invited to one of their parties, then you just gotta make a good first impression with the rest.
 

SirFratserlot

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
In general, social circles are cemented by high school. Some are cemented in college/university. But in my experience high school determines 90% of your social circle.
this, even in college the circles are cemented by this
 
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