Breaking Dates

[Dash Riprock]

For Uber-DJ's only:

I've been dating a super hot Latina babe (34 yr. old) for about 5 weeks now. I call her or text her maybe once/week to set something up and then plan a fun date.

Lot's of ****y/funny and overt-confidence has her basically eating out of my hand. I'm dating around but don't talk about it much; she has been pumping me for info re: how many other girls I'm seeing to which I reply (chidingly), "none of your bee's wax."

I nailed her last week (wow) and she stayed over.

I don't want things to get too comfortable so I'm thinking about cancelling our date for Friday night because "something came up" as to keep the tension line taught. Plus, I just feel like my game is off right now. Kind of like Brett Favre on Monday Night; an All-Pro who had a bad game.

Any DJ thoughts much appreciated

Dash in Boulder, CO

 

[Damian]

Just plain-old cancel on her. If you truly have her eating out of your hand, then there shouldn't be any problems with being direct. Just tell her you can't go because of *insert excuse here*, but best to do it the day before. Don't want to have girl totally stood up.

-Damian

 

[Shiz Nizzle]

cancel man

What is her number again ?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Dash Riprock

I don't want things to get too comfortable so I'm thinking about cancelling our date for Friday night because "something came up" as to keep the tension line taught.

That sounds like something a woman would do. If you didn't want things to get too comfortable why did you set up the date in the first place?

 

[Captain Popular]

i dont know who old you are but from my experience the older women dont like to play games...the've been in the game and perfer directness, (most of them now)
so if you have to tell her up front to prevent furture awkwardness do it now and early

 

[Oxide]

Why?

What are you, scared? Once a week is fine.

 

[Dash Riprock]

All good advice--thanks. I'm keeping the date. I can do some other things to keep the line tight.

It's VERY early in the ball game (5 weeks) so the standard has to be set NOW. Just like training a dog, if you mess up when they're a puppy they don't behave--or they run away.

I'm getting to the point of where she is letting her guard down a bit. Even though we had sex, I could tell she held back in the sack.

This girl is a 9+ so I'm sure she has dudes kissing her a$$ all the time. I haven't. As a matter of fact, I've taken C/F to the point of even being "jerkish" -- and she responded very favorably.

She is from Europe and says 99% of all US guys are wussies. LOL.