"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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djneo

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.. though it's ok for me that i lose her to find another it's still hard to forget her. I like to ask everyone here what you' did with your mementos? did you kept if or burned it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rex Man

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Momentos? Stash 'em away and don't look at em. Toss em if you can't control yourself. You need to get over her.
 

Telos

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Going through the same. I kept mine, but hid them away so they weren't easily stumbled upon. You will definitely want to look back on them later on in your life though.. don't destroy good memories out of spite.
 

Rex Man

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And don't spite yourself out of good memories; do whatever it takes to get over the hump.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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djneo said:
.. though it's ok for me that i lose her to find another it's still hard to forget her. I like to ask everyone here what you' did with your mementos? did you kept if or burned it?
Do you really need to mementos in order to remember the good times?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DonJuanNJ81

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Get rid of all the memento's and forget about her. Shes an old chapter in your book. Your not gonna want to have your ex's stuff all over your house when you bring a new chick home who might call you out on it. All you need to remember your ex is your thoughts.
 

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i threw all my **** in the garbage. deleting old emails, changed my number,
the b1tch wouldnt leave me alone.
so finally after months. i changed my number and wala! shes gone
but it took me like a year to get my **** together, even though time to time i think about her but nothing to krazy, i hold my ground, i sometimes think of hollering at her but theres no point. she has No direction in life.

i say **** all the women you can. **** relationships, b1tches play too much games and are far too immature, if i ever get into a relationship, it would be around 22ish, or when ever i find a girl who is mature enough to know waht she wants to wear and what to eat at the time.

it all comes down to time. it takes time, and if u wanna speed things up, spin all the plates u can, spin 10 plates if u can, stay busy, b1tches are the independent right here, time is the dependent. if u know what i mean
takes time, but if u wanna speed things up. PLATES ! PLATES!

and fransico is right, you dont need piece of papers and sh1t to rememeber good memories. good memories are always in ur head.

id burn it. help you move forward and not think about her as often as you would..
 
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