"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
break-up from an LTR
- Thread starter djneo
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Do you really need to mementos in order to remember the good times?djneo said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DonJuanNJ81
Don Juan
the b1tch wouldnt leave me alone.
so finally after months. i changed my number and wala! shes gone
but it took me like a year to get my **** together, even though time to time i think about her but nothing to krazy, i hold my ground, i sometimes think of hollering at her but theres no point. she has No direction in life.
i say **** all the women you can. **** relationships, b1tches play too much games and are far too immature, if i ever get into a relationship, it would be around 22ish, or when ever i find a girl who is mature enough to know waht she wants to wear and what to eat at the time.
it all comes down to time. it takes time, and if u wanna speed things up, spin all the plates u can, spin 10 plates if u can, stay busy, b1tches are the independent right here, time is the dependent. if u know what i mean
takes time, but if u wanna speed things up. PLATES ! PLATES!
and fransico is right, you dont need piece of papers and sh1t to rememeber good memories. good memories are always in ur head.
id burn it. help you move forward and not think about her as often as you would..