"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
break-up from an LTR
- Thread starter djneo
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Do you really need to mementos in order to remember the good times?djneo said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DonJuanNJ81
Don Juan
the b1tch wouldnt leave me alone.
so finally after months. i changed my number and wala! shes gone
but it took me like a year to get my **** together, even though time to time i think about her but nothing to krazy, i hold my ground, i sometimes think of hollering at her but theres no point. she has No direction in life.
i say **** all the women you can. **** relationships, b1tches play too much games and are far too immature, if i ever get into a relationship, it would be around 22ish, or when ever i find a girl who is mature enough to know waht she wants to wear and what to eat at the time.
it all comes down to time. it takes time, and if u wanna speed things up, spin all the plates u can, spin 10 plates if u can, stay busy, b1tches are the independent right here, time is the dependent. if u know what i mean
takes time, but if u wanna speed things up. PLATES ! PLATES!
and fransico is right, you dont need piece of papers and sh1t to rememeber good memories. good memories are always in ur head.
id burn it. help you move forward and not think about her as often as you would..