GloriouslyInsane
Master Don Juan
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I came to a conclusion that most of our past afc behavior was developed not only by social conditioning but by a phenomenon that slowly but steadily alters ourself until we're totally wussified.
This kind of revelations come to me while totally drunk,this one too.After screwing any chance whatsoever with this girl (again due to alcohol) one night,i was like, "WHAT THE FVCK IM UPSET ABOUT?" , this was one of those totally random encounters that i did not pursue,like i was one night out and this small thing led to a "romantic" relationship,then it hit me:
WHY WE GAVE TOO MUCH VALUE TO WOMEN
Let's say you meet a girl out of nowhere and may develop some kind of relationship with her,you see this as a GIFT that you don't want to lose (because supposedly it was an act of divine luck),you don't want to screw this up,so you're on the defense,and slowly..slowly undermine yourself into failing.
I explain better with image analogies so here's one:Lets say we have 2 men,A and B,one day A was given a great gift,an beautiful painting,B has a painting too,but one he drew himself,they're both beautiful.Where's the difference though? A will cherish and protect and admire his painting,even if he does not like it,cause he can't replace it,while B will say "SH!T MAN I CAN DRAW A BETTER PAINTING" and shred it without thinking twice.
I know this has been said a thousand times but it is quite difficult to coprehend,PURSUE YOUR LUCK,CREATE YOUR DESTINY.You now know how to "draw paintings" why do you still cherish the one you have now so much? Is it a true work of art?
So,next time you're fighting to save a dying relationship just say to yourself "SH!T MAN, I CAN MEET A BETTER GIRL" and bail.I felt so relieved after doing so,as long as you settle for mediocrity you can't claim the better life you seek.
This kind of revelations come to me while totally drunk,this one too.After screwing any chance whatsoever with this girl (again due to alcohol) one night,i was like, "WHAT THE FVCK IM UPSET ABOUT?" , this was one of those totally random encounters that i did not pursue,like i was one night out and this small thing led to a "romantic" relationship,then it hit me:
WHY WE GAVE TOO MUCH VALUE TO WOMEN
Let's say you meet a girl out of nowhere and may develop some kind of relationship with her,you see this as a GIFT that you don't want to lose (because supposedly it was an act of divine luck),you don't want to screw this up,so you're on the defense,and slowly..slowly undermine yourself into failing.
I explain better with image analogies so here's one:Lets say we have 2 men,A and B,one day A was given a great gift,an beautiful painting,B has a painting too,but one he drew himself,they're both beautiful.Where's the difference though? A will cherish and protect and admire his painting,even if he does not like it,cause he can't replace it,while B will say "SH!T MAN I CAN DRAW A BETTER PAINTING" and shred it without thinking twice.
I know this has been said a thousand times but it is quite difficult to coprehend,PURSUE YOUR LUCK,CREATE YOUR DESTINY.You now know how to "draw paintings" why do you still cherish the one you have now so much? Is it a true work of art?
So,next time you're fighting to save a dying relationship just say to yourself "SH!T MAN, I CAN MEET A BETTER GIRL" and bail.I felt so relieved after doing so,as long as you settle for mediocrity you can't claim the better life you seek.
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