"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Break the cycle!

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I came to a conclusion that most of our past afc behavior was developed not only by social conditioning but by a phenomenon that slowly but steadily alters ourself until we're totally wussified.

This kind of revelations come to me while totally drunk,this one too.After screwing any chance whatsoever with this girl (again due to alcohol) one night,i was like, "WHAT THE FVCK IM UPSET ABOUT?" , this was one of those totally random encounters that i did not pursue,like i was one night out and this small thing led to a "romantic" relationship,then it hit me:

WHY WE GAVE TOO MUCH VALUE TO WOMEN
Let's say you meet a girl out of nowhere and may develop some kind of relationship with her,you see this as a GIFT that you don't want to lose (because supposedly it was an act of divine luck),you don't want to screw this up,so you're on the defense,and slowly..slowly undermine yourself into failing.

I explain better with image analogies so here's one:Lets say we have 2 men,A and B,one day A was given a great gift,an beautiful painting,B has a painting too,but one he drew himself,they're both beautiful.Where's the difference though? A will cherish and protect and admire his painting,even if he does not like it,cause he can't replace it,while B will say "SH!T MAN I CAN DRAW A BETTER PAINTING" and shred it without thinking twice.

I know this has been said a thousand times but it is quite difficult to coprehend,PURSUE YOUR LUCK,CREATE YOUR DESTINY.You now know how to "draw paintings" why do you still cherish the one you have now so much? Is it a true work of art?

So,next time you're fighting to save a dying relationship just say to yourself "SH!T MAN, I CAN MEET A BETTER GIRL" and bail.I felt so relieved after doing so,as long as you settle for mediocrity you can't claim the better life you seek.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's break, BREAK!
Open a dictionary, man.
 

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haha true,well english is my third language so don't hold it against me :D
 

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Oh, right, I was just thinking you were another illiterate bum. Your english is pretty spiffy for a 3rd language.
I've always loved languages, myself. Want to really expand when I'm older and sitting on my laurels.
Russian, Portugese, maybe even Italian and Japanese. But I definitaly want to expand and learn languages. Invaluable.
That and get good at swimming, I live in the freaking Mediterranean and I'm rubbish.

So, yeah, off-topic but I don't care. :D

Oh, alright. "Good post".
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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