"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ugh. Just found the ex BPDs iPad. I'm painting my bedroom and it was behind bed. Thought I'd return it since it's the right thing to do through a mutual friend. She was really upset when she lost it...

I won't lie. I also thought of including a note saying she should apologize to a long time friend of hers she accused her and I of having an affair with. Never even kissed the chick.

Thoughts? That would be it. Swear.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Johnny Alias

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Yeah. You guys are right. Thanks for calling me out on it. Simply no point in trying to get an apology out of her even if its for another person. The ex friend would probably be pissed I even brought it up considering crazy and crazy bf shouted at her like crazy, accused her and i of having an affair, and then wouldn't provide vaccination papers when his dog bit her daughter. Actually told her to F*** off when she asked.

Yeah. Ex friend doesn't want anything to do with BPD. Why the hell should I try to make peace? Stupid.
 
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Man, find a mutual friend you are still in contact and you know that still is in touch with your ex!

Give this person the Device, tell this person to return to device to her!

And DO NOT send any messages! Just say I found this, give it back to my ex!

Your ex will most likely ask to that perrson if any message was given, and since you have not said a word, it will leave her wondering...}


Not that you should care!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She doesn't know I have it. She thought she lost it in the mountains...

I'm just going to give it to her mutual friend. I'm no thief. This thing cost like $400 bucks.

No message though. No anything.
 
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Yeah return it. It's not yours and it's not like you stole it so that you could talk to her.

It's not a big deal to do something like this unless you make it a big deal in your mind.
 
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