"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Johnny Alias

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Ugh. Just found the ex BPDs iPad. I'm painting my bedroom and it was behind bed. Thought I'd return it since it's the right thing to do through a mutual friend. She was really upset when she lost it...

I won't lie. I also thought of including a note saying she should apologize to a long time friend of hers she accused her and I of having an affair with. Never even kissed the chick.

Thoughts? That would be it. Swear.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Johnny Alias

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Yeah. You guys are right. Thanks for calling me out on it. Simply no point in trying to get an apology out of her even if its for another person. The ex friend would probably be pissed I even brought it up considering crazy and crazy bf shouted at her like crazy, accused her and i of having an affair, and then wouldn't provide vaccination papers when his dog bit her daughter. Actually told her to F*** off when she asked.

Yeah. Ex friend doesn't want anything to do with BPD. Why the hell should I try to make peace? Stupid.
 
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Lotus Effect

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Man, find a mutual friend you are still in contact and you know that still is in touch with your ex!

Give this person the Device, tell this person to return to device to her!

And DO NOT send any messages! Just say I found this, give it back to my ex!

Your ex will most likely ask to that perrson if any message was given, and since you have not said a word, it will leave her wondering...}


Not that you should care!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She doesn't know I have it. She thought she lost it in the mountains...

I'm just going to give it to her mutual friend. I'm no thief. This thing cost like $400 bucks.

No message though. No anything.
 
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Yeah return it. It's not yours and it's not like you stole it so that you could talk to her.

It's not a big deal to do something like this unless you make it a big deal in your mind.
 
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