Break NC or no?

[Johnny Alias]

Ugh. Just found the ex BPDs iPad. I'm painting my bedroom and it was behind bed. Thought I'd return it since it's the right thing to do through a mutual friend. She was really upset when she lost it...

I won't lie. I also thought of including a note saying she should apologize to a long time friend of hers she accused her and I of having an affair with. Never even kissed the chick.

Thoughts? That would be it. Swear.

 

[Tictac]

Return the device.

Nothing more.

 

[TheException]

Return the device.

Nothing more.

This^

Dont be some try-hard.

 

[Johnny Alias]

Yeah. You guys are right. Thanks for calling me out on it. Simply no point in trying to get an apology out of her even if its for another person. The ex friend would probably be pissed I even brought it up considering crazy and crazy bf shouted at her like crazy, accused her and i of having an affair, and then wouldn't provide vaccination papers when his dog bit her daughter. Actually told her to F*** off when she asked.

Yeah. Ex friend doesn't want anything to do with BPD. Why the hell should I try to make peace? Stupid.

 

[Lotus Effect]

Man, find a mutual friend you are still in contact and you know that still is in touch with your ex!

Give this person the Device, tell this person to return to device to her!

And DO NOT send any messages! Just say I found this, give it back to my ex!

Your ex will most likely ask to that perrson if any message was given, and since you have not said a word, it will leave her wondering...}


Not that you should care!

 

[Johnny Alias]

She doesn't know I have it. She thought she lost it in the mountains...

I'm just going to give it to her mutual friend. I'm no thief. This thing cost like $400 bucks.

No message though. No anything.

 

[Uncharted]

Yeah return it. It's not yours and it's not like you stole it so that you could talk to her.

It's not a big deal to do something like this unless you make it a big deal in your mind.