"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bragging Rights

Super FLY Guy

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Hey DJ's. I am seeking advice on the subject of bragging rights: Image that you are in class and one of your friends congradulates you on an accomplishment. If you are in the middle of a convo. with a girl would you recommend playing this complement off as "Thanks guys, but it was really nothin much" or bragging about this achiement. :cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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08aisaac

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Well this is why you have a brain so you can make these decisions yourself. If you feel like bragging go ahead but if you want to downplay it don't. The idea isn't that you try to impress girls but rather that they impress you. You should have a mindset that she is the one impressing you. Read some articles in the bible. Yeah the bible is called that because it is there to guide you. But you are new so we can't expect you to have read the whole thing. I just downloaded the sucker and read it every now and thne when I am bored.

Congrats on your first post.
 

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wow... yeah use your brain, seriously!

If its a compliment like wow, you played those girls well yesterday.

You: "WTF, are you talking about...?"

If its like hey ladies, this guy is good with girls

You: "Your so random..."

If its like goodjob on the basketball game yesterday

You: "thanks... "

Sheshh if you think it IS an acomplishment then brag, if you do it all the time, jus say thanks or w/e.

Like seriously man... keep it real, and use the brain
 

spider_007

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you can do it, but be sarcastic and arogant about it - that way it turns out funny
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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