Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Bragging Rights

Super FLY Guy

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Hey DJ's. I am seeking advice on the subject of bragging rights: Image that you are in class and one of your friends congradulates you on an accomplishment. If you are in the middle of a convo. with a girl would you recommend playing this complement off as "Thanks guys, but it was really nothin much" or bragging about this achiement. :cool:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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08aisaac

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Well this is why you have a brain so you can make these decisions yourself. If you feel like bragging go ahead but if you want to downplay it don't. The idea isn't that you try to impress girls but rather that they impress you. You should have a mindset that she is the one impressing you. Read some articles in the bible. Yeah the bible is called that because it is there to guide you. But you are new so we can't expect you to have read the whole thing. I just downloaded the sucker and read it every now and thne when I am bored.

Congrats on your first post.
 

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wow... yeah use your brain, seriously!

If its a compliment like wow, you played those girls well yesterday.

You: "WTF, are you talking about...?"

If its like hey ladies, this guy is good with girls

You: "Your so random..."

If its like goodjob on the basketball game yesterday

You: "thanks... "

Sheshh if you think it IS an acomplishment then brag, if you do it all the time, jus say thanks or w/e.

Like seriously man... keep it real, and use the brain
 

spider_007

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you can do it, but be sarcastic and arogant about it - that way it turns out funny
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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