"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bragging Rights

Super FLY Guy

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Hey DJ's. I am seeking advice on the subject of bragging rights: Image that you are in class and one of your friends congradulates you on an accomplishment. If you are in the middle of a convo. with a girl would you recommend playing this complement off as "Thanks guys, but it was really nothin much" or bragging about this achiement. :cool:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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08aisaac

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Well this is why you have a brain so you can make these decisions yourself. If you feel like bragging go ahead but if you want to downplay it don't. The idea isn't that you try to impress girls but rather that they impress you. You should have a mindset that she is the one impressing you. Read some articles in the bible. Yeah the bible is called that because it is there to guide you. But you are new so we can't expect you to have read the whole thing. I just downloaded the sucker and read it every now and thne when I am bored.

Congrats on your first post.
 

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wow... yeah use your brain, seriously!

If its a compliment like wow, you played those girls well yesterday.

You: "WTF, are you talking about...?"

If its like hey ladies, this guy is good with girls

You: "Your so random..."

If its like goodjob on the basketball game yesterday

You: "thanks... "

Sheshh if you think it IS an acomplishment then brag, if you do it all the time, jus say thanks or w/e.

Like seriously man... keep it real, and use the brain
 

spider_007

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you can do it, but be sarcastic and arogant about it - that way it turns out funny
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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