"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Brag about your woman.

jazzmaster2

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I see this forum has way too many posts from guys having trouble with women asking questions, people giving tips that are impossible to apply in real life. That's not not to mention masturbation techniques. Oye. But since it's New Year, I'd like to to lighten up the mood. So how about we just freakin' brag about our significant other(s) for once. It's about time. Here's my little brag:

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I'm together with an amazing girl who just would not stop making me laugh. After 1 year, you'd think we'd run out of things to banter about, but no.

We started out friendly, but neither of us could imagine being together with each for a number of reasons. She thought I wasn't her type, I thought she wasn't interested, and list goes on. There were moments when we both felt something, but I usually just ignored them. We can especially do banter and one-liners like no others. Now thinking back, we must have distracted a lot of people at meetings.

Well, we finally ended up together by sheer luck when we both happened to run into each other in another country. Well, it was actually only Canada. A few dinners and a good haircut later, I brought it up and she felt the same.

A year later, we still have fun and laugh together. Y'know , just the typical stuff. The only not-so-typical thing is that she decided to be abstinent, which is something I really respect. Now, I'm curious to see what you guys think on this, y'know, with me being still be abstinent after 1 year.
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So, what's your story?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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JackBauer24

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Your post belongs on love.com, not on here. We don't want to hear about your boring, sexless relationship.
 
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Yeah alot of bitter people around here no need to stir them all up.
 
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Ouch I just read the last line about the abstinence. That's nothing to brag about my friend. This has to be a troll post.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jazzmaster2

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My Name is Nobody said:
Ouch I just read the last line about the abstinence. That's nothing to brag about my friend. This has to be a troll post.
What the hell is a troll post?
 
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Someone coming on sosuave.com bragging about a sexless relationship. Something so funny it can't be true. Something like that...
 

jazzmaster2

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My Name is Nobody said:
Someone coming on sosuave.com bragging about a sexless relationship. Something so funny it can't be true. Something like that...
Wow, it's rarity now a day, huh? :(
 
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jazzmaster2 said:
Wow, it's rarity now a day, huh? :(

As long as your happy you're fine but you have to admit it was funny considering the entire point if this site is getting laid.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Menage a Mi

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Why don't we all talk about our penis size? A discussion couldn't get much lamer than this. Maybe the mods are taking new years eve off. Otherwise this thread would have been closed already. TROLL!!!!
 

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The whole point of the site is getting laid? How freaking pathetic are you that you need a site dedicated to getting laid?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MY favorite girlfriend was a mexican puerto rican bi-sexual who would suck my **** for hours if I let her lol...real talk she was tight
 
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