I will be getting braces in a few weeks. I don't really need them, but I know I will be glad I had them later on in life. My question is, will this be a problem with in comes to developing into a Don Juan? I am starting college in the fall, and I don't want braces to affect my first year of college.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Braces?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Can't you get those behind-the-teeth braces or the Invisilines or whatever they're called? Sorry, but I think braces at 18+ are going to be a major turn-off.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
you sound like you deal with self-confidence issues. look, braces are important to you, and you can't change it other than by not having them, which would create problems down the road. So, Hakuna Matata. Just project yourself as someone worth knowing who has a backbone.
I wanted to get invisilines, but unfortunately they're not an option for my teeth. I am getting the clear bracket-thingies for the front six ''smile teeth'', though.
P.S. I only need them for a year and a half!
P.S. I only need them for a year and a half!
SoonToBeDJ
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I wouldn't worry too much. Everyone, all ages have braces nowadays so don't let it lower your confidence.
I had them for about 2 years my sophomore, junior and a small part of my senior year in high school. I had girls actually tell me the braces were "cute." While they might not be what women are out there looking for they aren't bad.
They also make you stand out a touch in someway which can workout to your advantage. Like I said though don't worry about it, you will be very satisfied with the results.
One little tip I will give you that is important is to take time brushing your teeth. Make sure you brush around each brace as best as possible.
I had them for about 2 years my sophomore, junior and a small part of my senior year in high school. I had girls actually tell me the braces were "cute." While they might not be what women are out there looking for they aren't bad.
They also make you stand out a touch in someway which can workout to your advantage. Like I said though don't worry about it, you will be very satisfied with the results.
One little tip I will give you that is important is to take time brushing your teeth. Make sure you brush around each brace as best as possible.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
superchristx
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So you'll look like a geek, so what? You've got the market cornered on geekettes. I love geekettes.....
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
It makes no difference whatsoever. Proof? The most popular guy at my school wore braces.
Senor Koketo
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Bro, I got braces put on in the summer and I was feeling the same way... however, the ladies that I have met since then have all commented with things like:
"They look cute",
"You can hardly notice",
or "It says alot about your character".
Translation...
they were either letting me know that it isn't a big issue, reassuring me that they don't care, or telling me that I care about my appearence and they respect that.
People WILL notice them, but then quickly forget and find other triggers to stimulate conversation.
my two cents
S.K.
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
remember there's something about mary? yeah that guy had braces and got the girl... date ****ed up cause he got snagged zippin it up. LOLZ he had one-itis for years
eeda way, what ya say is what matters! I got bad acne, it don't bother me, and I don't even have to smile to get girls, just smirk
p), they come to me.Braces ain't bad at all, never seen any problem against people with braces, and after they're done with em they got good teeth, and thats how you judge a horse! Good teeth is a goal, thats why you brush, and chew gum.
Great job on doze braces
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.