Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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donjuan87

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I will be getting braces in a few weeks. I don't really need them, but I know I will be glad I had them later on in life. My question is, will this be a problem with in comes to developing into a Don Juan? I am starting college in the fall, and I don't want braces to affect my first year of college.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Scrumtulescence

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Can't you get those behind-the-teeth braces or the Invisilines or whatever they're called? Sorry, but I think braces at 18+ are going to be a major turn-off.
 

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you sound like you deal with self-confidence issues. look, braces are important to you, and you can't change it other than by not having them, which would create problems down the road. So, Hakuna Matata. Just project yourself as someone worth knowing who has a backbone.
 

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I wanted to get invisilines, but unfortunately they're not an option for my teeth. I am getting the clear bracket-thingies for the front six ''smile teeth'', though.

P.S. I only need them for a year and a half! :)
 

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I wouldn't worry too much. Everyone, all ages have braces nowadays so don't let it lower your confidence.

I had them for about 2 years my sophomore, junior and a small part of my senior year in high school. I had girls actually tell me the braces were "cute." While they might not be what women are out there looking for they aren't bad.

They also make you stand out a touch in someway which can workout to your advantage. Like I said though don't worry about it, you will be very satisfied with the results.

One little tip I will give you that is important is to take time brushing your teeth. Make sure you brush around each brace as best as possible.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It makes no difference whatsoever. Proof? The most popular guy at my school wore braces.
 

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One of my mates has braces, he's laid 17 girls and he's 21.
 

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Originally posted by donjuan87
I will be getting braces in a few weeks. I don't really need them, but I know I will be glad I had them later on in life. My question is, will this be a problem with in comes to developing into a Don Juan? I am starting college in the fall, and I don't want braces to affect my first year of college.
Bro, I got braces put on in the summer and I was feeling the same way... however, the ladies that I have met since then have all commented with things like:

"They look cute",
"You can hardly notice",
or "It says alot about your character".

Translation...

they were either letting me know that it isn't a big issue, reassuring me that they don't care, or telling me that I care about my appearence and they respect that.

People WILL notice them, but then quickly forget and find other triggers to stimulate conversation.

my two cents

S.K.
 

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Originally posted by wolfie
One of my mates has braces, he's laid 17 girls and he's 21.
remember there's something about mary? yeah that guy had braces and got the girl... date ****ed up cause he got snagged zippin it up. LOLZ he had one-itis for years;)

eeda way, what ya say is what matters! I got bad acne, it don't bother me, and I don't even have to smile to get girls, just smirk:)p), they come to me.

Braces ain't bad at all, never seen any problem against people with braces, and after they're done with em they got good teeth, and thats how you judge a horse! Good teeth is a goal, thats why you brush, and chew gum.

Great job on doze braces:D:D :D :D :D :D :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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