"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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donjuan87

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I will be getting braces in a few weeks. I don't really need them, but I know I will be glad I had them later on in life. My question is, will this be a problem with in comes to developing into a Don Juan? I am starting college in the fall, and I don't want braces to affect my first year of college.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Scrumtulescence

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Can't you get those behind-the-teeth braces or the Invisilines or whatever they're called? Sorry, but I think braces at 18+ are going to be a major turn-off.
 

wavejams007

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you sound like you deal with self-confidence issues. look, braces are important to you, and you can't change it other than by not having them, which would create problems down the road. So, Hakuna Matata. Just project yourself as someone worth knowing who has a backbone.
 

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I wanted to get invisilines, but unfortunately they're not an option for my teeth. I am getting the clear bracket-thingies for the front six ''smile teeth'', though.

P.S. I only need them for a year and a half! :)
 

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I wouldn't worry too much. Everyone, all ages have braces nowadays so don't let it lower your confidence.

I had them for about 2 years my sophomore, junior and a small part of my senior year in high school. I had girls actually tell me the braces were "cute." While they might not be what women are out there looking for they aren't bad.

They also make you stand out a touch in someway which can workout to your advantage. Like I said though don't worry about it, you will be very satisfied with the results.

One little tip I will give you that is important is to take time brushing your teeth. Make sure you brush around each brace as best as possible.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It makes no difference whatsoever. Proof? The most popular guy at my school wore braces.
 

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One of my mates has braces, he's laid 17 girls and he's 21.
 

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Originally posted by donjuan87
I will be getting braces in a few weeks. I don't really need them, but I know I will be glad I had them later on in life. My question is, will this be a problem with in comes to developing into a Don Juan? I am starting college in the fall, and I don't want braces to affect my first year of college.
Bro, I got braces put on in the summer and I was feeling the same way... however, the ladies that I have met since then have all commented with things like:

"They look cute",
"You can hardly notice",
or "It says alot about your character".

Translation...

they were either letting me know that it isn't a big issue, reassuring me that they don't care, or telling me that I care about my appearence and they respect that.

People WILL notice them, but then quickly forget and find other triggers to stimulate conversation.

my two cents

S.K.
 

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Originally posted by wolfie
One of my mates has braces, he's laid 17 girls and he's 21.
remember there's something about mary? yeah that guy had braces and got the girl... date ****ed up cause he got snagged zippin it up. LOLZ he had one-itis for years;)

eeda way, what ya say is what matters! I got bad acne, it don't bother me, and I don't even have to smile to get girls, just smirk:)p), they come to me.

Braces ain't bad at all, never seen any problem against people with braces, and after they're done with em they got good teeth, and thats how you judge a horse! Good teeth is a goal, thats why you brush, and chew gum.

Great job on doze braces:D:D :D :D :D :D :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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